DiscoverFeminist WellnessEp #342: Why I Don’t Use the Term “Codependency"
Ep #342: Why I Don’t Use the Term “Codependency"

Ep #342: Why I Don’t Use the Term “Codependency"

Update: 2025-09-04
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#342: The word "codependent" is everywhere - on book covers (even mine), in therapy sessions, in conversations about relationships. But there's something fundamentally wrong with how we use this label. 

If you recognize yourself in patterns of people-pleasing, emotional caretaking, or losing yourself in other people's chaos, I want you to know something important: You're not broken. You're not diseased. And you're definitely not codependent. What you are is brilliantly adaptive.


Join me this week as I share why I'm moving away from the term "codependent" and offer a new framework that honors your nervous system's intelligence while creating space for growth.


Get full show notes, transcript, and more information here: https://beatrizalbina.com/342

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Ep #342: Why I Don’t Use the Term “Codependency"

Ep #342: Why I Don’t Use the Term “Codependency"